My Emotions Feel Officially Screwed With

Okay, so, I had a totally CRAP day, and I come home to see 37 comments on Schnitzel's montage (And there are, like, twice that many now). Loving my gorgeous twin as much as I do, I got uber exited for her... Only to find that, while the first comment concerned the beautious montage, the others did not. According to a fan from the LJ forums (I'm not saying that this person isn't telling the truth, so please don't hijak the KKD truck to come after me...), Benji told them that his girlfriend is NOT Donny.

Here's the recount of the discussion on foxforums (I haven't actually seen that discussion. This is from a comment Anonymous @ 2:06):

"I don't know what made me blurt it out, but I did. I asked him if he could tell us who this "special someone" was. he said he couldn't but that he could tell us he was seeing her today. So we asked if that meant she wasn't there last night and he confirmed it. We made a disappointed sound and he said he knew we wanted him with Donyelle, but that she has a boyfriend. Then he went on to say "Who knows what the future hold?" which we told him was mean because it gave us hope. He kind of smiled and said something else, which I don't really remember...but there it is."


Here's a comment that Sherry made on Benji's blog, with an analysis by Winone (It's not a new blog, just the original one about a 'special someone'):

Okay, I'm offically confused. I've been lurking here for like ever and when this message came I to totally thought it was Donny too! But now I'm hearing different stuff from fans. What's going on Benji? I figured when all these people started congratulating you and Donny, and then you never corrected them that it was true? I mean if its not her shouldn't you say so? Then I read this:

Sorry Benji is not fooling me.

1. One to protect his "NEW" girl's feelings he would know that it would be foolish to say he has a special someone in his life on myspace, when he knows that everyone would assume it was him a Donny and flood his message board with message about them.
2. Benji has maintained on a show that he didn't want to do the long distance thing on tour for obvious reasons and was not looking for anyone at the moment.
3. Look at his actions at the NYC show. Benji and Donny choose to wear similar outfits to look all couply. Also The NYC was the first time that he got to take pics with Donny at a meet and greet and I can tell you he was totally happy.
3. Also he made two blogs in the wake of NYC and those blogs came 2 or 3 hours the meet and greet ended About how he loved NYC and about the great energy that was at Madison square garden he was totally happy about taking pic with Donny and nothing else because Benji got a lukewarm rececption at the actual show.
4. Also Benji is smart he, knew what he was doing he made the "special somebody" blog after taking pics with Donny knowing that those pics would be plastered all over his myspace. Also Benji added Sosweety and the girl Janet to his top friends list just to have those pics on the front of the MS page.
5. Finally at the Philly show he told the girl that made the cute animation of him and Donny that he has that pic as his screen saver and told her to put it up on his MS so EVRYONE could see it. When you have a new girlfriend you don't do things like that.
6. Plus Benji has increased his PDA at the shows and is kissing and rubbing on Donny which is not apart of the routine. If he has a new girl other than Donny he wouldn't; be adding all the extra PDA. (remember how he acted with Nat when they were paired together) He's loyal to his girl and wouldn't do things like that.
7. Lastly how on earth could he have possibly found a "new" girl why on tour????????

Benji is not fooling me actions have been speaking louder than words this whole time, so I'm not going to take his words over his actions.

Sorry Benji is not fooling me. Still shipping.

And it confused me even more...so whats the Deal B-Man? It seems that a lot folks are wondering, and a few are getting upset...at least thats what i saw on the boards today. Dude, you should claify and soon!

Posted by Sherry on Monday, October 09, 2006 at 3:30 PM



A compilation of various pieces of evidence that it could still be Donny (Some from Sherry, some from the comments on here, and some from me. Feel free to comment here if you want recognition for a certain point, but most were made by several different people.):

• He said throughout the show that he didn't want a long distance relationship.
• When would he have time to meet and get to know someone who's not on tour with him?
• If he did meet someone, she'd be a fangirl (They said they spend their free time sleeping, so he'd have no real opportunity to meet her somewhere else).
• He didn't mention this after the LA show, so he would have met her in another state (Which takes us back to the long distance thing).
• If, by chance, she is from his hometown, and he knew her previously: Why are they suddenly getting together on tour, when he won't see her?
• Actually, the quote Anonymous gave us states that he'd be seeing her that day, so it's rather unlikely that she's be from Redlands.
• Donny is STILL number two on his MySpace.
• He has not discredited the rumors flooding the web about how the Benjelle is together.
• We'd never seen him do that to her ass before ; )

• You can see him trying SO hard not to laugh, smiling like an idiot... She's stepping up the sexy. He's unbelievably pleased. he's walking backwards to face her as they leave the stage.

• Note the 'what I can TRUTHFULLY say', 'my MAGICAL partner', the face running down her back, the cheek kiss, her air kiss, etc.

• Whispering by the buses:

• Denies to a fan that it is each of the girls BUT Donny... He avoids that one...
• Each smiles when a fan asks them about their relationship.
• He signed 'I do too' on the 'I love Donny' poster, and signs 'CTB' on everything.
• Uh, note how, while talking about this "other girl" he mentions that there may be a future with Donny... Ummm... (Note that he's also made a point of saying that his relationship isn't official yet... That's the future, folks.)
• All of a sudden, he has fans who just so happen to have Benjelle pics as their defaults in his Top Friends.
• He smooshed that Allison rumor immediately, but not this one.
• He still has the Forrest and Jenny pic up, and none of him with this "other girl"
• Uh, MySpace songs
• Said he'd show Donny my shippy montage
• Has Mandah's comic as his screensaver, and asked her to put it on MySpace so EVERYONE could see it.
• He continues to say in the VFW intro that he 'doesn't know' what's going on, rather than killing the rumors.
• She wore his hat.
• His 'I don't know' temporarily switched to 'no comment'.
• There are the behind the creen escapades.
• He kissed her at the end of the VFW in Phoenix.
• They were on opposite sides of the stage, and started laughing together.
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• *drools*

• He kissed her on the forehead as she signed autographs.
• She rubbed and squeezed his waist as HE signed autographs.
• He's been known to caress her cheek in the ending pose of the VFW.
• Nuf said:

• Look how damn close their lips are : D

• Aw, squee

• Maybe it's just me, but it totally looks like he's staring at her bare stomach...

• They stood near each other, making it clear that they wanted people to take pictures of them together:

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• New pictures from Heather:

I LOVE THIS ONE

She has no head...
• Also from Heather, these are just NOT the same : D

• When asked about Benjelle in the past, he simply answered that Donny was in a relationship at the time, and faithful.
• His answers have also been (To Vixen, for instance), along the lines of 'feelings are private.'

Now, I could go on for hours, but I've already spent well over an hour on this post, and I REALLY need to do homework, so I'll leave it off there. I'm not saying I don't believe that Benji said that (It's possible he didn't, but I have no reason to believe that this person is untrustworthy), but it's very possible that he's trying to throw us off.

Also, a TON of comments have been added since I started writing this, so if you mentioned one of those things, and are the only person who did, sorry for not giving you credit : (. It's just a coinkidink that I wrote what you did.

So, in closing, as I said in the comments *ahem*:

99 big Moosey hugs on the wall
99 big Moosey hugs
Take one down
Pass it around
98 big Moosey hugs on the wall

Spread the lurv, folks! It's been said many times before (Most recently pointed out by my sis Thallie, I believe), that this blog is our own little Benjelle sanctuary. Unlike those boards suh as foforums that are not exlusively Benjelle, the people here USUALLY agree on the major issues, and we tend to have minimal disgreements. Please try to keep this place a safe haven for all Benjellies. We need to stick together : D

Much love!

Oh, and nevermind to that first thing : D A ton more comments just popped up, and they praise the almighty Schnitzel. MWAH!

~ Moosey ~