Thursday, July 05, 2007

The End of an Era

Thanks anonymous... It made me cry a little, but at least it came at a time when Benjelle's depressing me, anyway..

So, apparently... Donny and Tahir are engaged..

I don't know how our lovely little reviewer found this out, but, after a year of experience with Benjelle and several months without much shipping possibility... I've grown quite prone to believe the bad news (Which is, hopefully, only in the respect of Benjelledom... We can't really do anything about T, so my only hope is that he treats her right and she's happy with him...)

^
l
l
l

I'll hopefully stop being quite so heartbroken soon and actually believe my own words.

So much for NPBADATABHAID...

~ Sobbing Moose ~

20 comments:

Anonymous said...

Well... agreed. Honestly, I just want her to be happy. If she's happy with Tahir, then... I'm happy for her.

I'm still loving the Benjelle as much as ever. They're still as gorgeous together when they dance, and I just love their friendship still being very much alive. No one can take away from the fact that they had and HAVE amazing chemistry.

Though yeah, I get where you're coming from. It's always nice to be able to dream.

Moose said...

*sigh*

As I said, I really want Donyelle to be happy, but Benjelle was my way of living vicariously through them for a long period where life kinda sucked, and I was majorly depressed... So the end of this ship means a lot more to me than just whether or not they're making out in a dark closet somewhere...

Okay, somebody cheer me up, please :'(.

First this right when I wake up; then my sister leaves to go visit her friends at college (She'll be back on the 17th, but, even so, I have yet to manage not to cry when she leaves); and then I went to the Jes'Von thread at IDF hoping to be cheered up a bit, only to have the first thing I read be about the engagement, quickly followed by a picture of Jesús and Sara smiling adorably with some fans and a caption saying that this is probably the last Jes'Von picture...

I already sat down with my tub of cookie dough, and that's not working...

I need a hug :(

Anonymous said...

Awww...

*huge hug*

I so get where you're coming from, though. I fell in love with Benjelle last year, and then I kinda just... disappeared from it all. I don't live in the US, so I couldn't go to the tour, and I got all involved in other things. But then about a month or two ago, my love for all things Benjelle hit me full force again for some reason. Maybe it was the new season starting, although it kinda hit me before that, too. I don't know why.

So I started looking around for things on the net, and I couldn't believe all the stuff I found. I was in Benjelle heaven again, almost a year after the second season had ended.

And I must admit I've had my hopes up for Donyelle and Benji, despite the fact that once I came back now, I learned she had a boyfriend and all that (I didn't know that last year when watching the show - again, I was very into THEM and the show, but not very into the online fandom), and I suppose my hopes were crushed a bit, but... heck... My love for them is still just as strong, if not STRONGER. Just remember that they are still obviously very close, and that the friendship is most definitely still there.

But okay, my point was that I get where you're coming from, because I've been there myself, only with other people. I definitely know what it's like to live vicariously through a ship and then have it all crash down on you, and not in a good way.

So that hug?

Giving you another one.

*HUGS*

onlyhuman13 said...

Aww moose... *hug*

I agree.. this sucks majorly. Benjelle was my major fangirl-ness of last summer.. and kept my focus on them rather than life... but hey. If Donny's happy... then I guess it's ok. =(

But, I watched dances over again from season 2 last night. They have such amaaazing chemistry. Let's hope they stay amazing friends.

Taylor said...

I'm in shock. I think I'm gonna come back when my heart attack is over.

...O_O

Anonymous said...

i can be all civil about this and stuff.. but i choose not to. i wish tahir would just drop and die and then donyelle and benji get together and be an item again. x_x

Anonymous said...

well..... there's some benjelle news. =((

Anonymous said...

everyone is saying that on her myspace but i need to see some hardcore boopin evidence! how dop they know she is engaged??? ugh!!

Anonymous said...

Donyelle wears a ring that looks like a solitaire on her middle finger on one of her hands. It is possible that someone saw this and mistook it for an engagement ring and inadvertantly started a rumor.

Anonymous said...

Nah, it's true. There are pictures from the actual proposal and Donny showing off her ring...

Taylor said...

Alright. I think I'm stable again.

Everyone knows that I'm a Tahir fan and I'm happy that this happened. I knew that Benjelle wouldn't last. And I know that Benjelle is finally over. I can accept that because it's obvious that it was going to happen sooner or later. It just sucks that it had to be sooner. The only thing that I ask is that this won't erase last summer. Especially La Benjelle Familia. Even though we barely ever talk to one another anymore I still love you all and I'm never going to forget you girls, I don't care if Donyelle gets married, I don't care if Benji gets married, I don't even care if they both have children...I just want to make sure that La Benjelle Familia is forever like we said it would be. The distance and time differences have already kept us apart long enough, and the end of Benjelle sure isn't helping, but La Benjelle Familia isn't going to just disappear, because it's not about them anymore. It's about us.

*sigh* Okay, that was my speech. =/

Anonymous said...

im not gonna lie...that really makes me sad...

...for real...

Anonymous said...

where are these pictures?? i demand to see them!! and them burn them =]

Taylor said...

there's like one on Donyelle's account....i think. o_O

Anonymous said...

I am sad :(, but as long as she is happy I am happy:)....I just want to thank Taylor and Moose for Creating this blog, I was here at the beginning and I have had alot of fun here!!! With you guys' stories its been fun, I'm just really happy her and Benji are still friends and like Taylor, I knew it was going happen eventually just not so soon, but Tahir is a nice guy so its all good! SO does this mean we have to get off of S.S. Benjelle?!

Unknown said...

ummmm Taylor! not ALL of La Familia stopped talking!

Moose and I party it up on a daily basis!

Moose said...

*hugs ora*

awwww... and i try to talk to candice, bridge, and ray on facebook, too... the problem is, i'm rarely on myspace...

but i still miss how close some of us once were (there are a couple of you who i was really close to, and am still a little heartbroken that we've grown apart... on of you in particular, and, if you're reading this, you know who you are). i love talking to everyone i still find time to talk to outside of the blog, but our little circle has shrunk :(

*le sigh*

Taylor said...

yeah, I talk to Chicky like everyday O_O

but I miss Kemi. =/

Taylor said...

Nevermind, I talked to Kemi this morning. :] YAAY!

Anonymous said...

wow, when i first read that, i got the wind totally knocked out of me. i really want to be able to be happy for her, since i was a DFF. but it is kinda hard to suddenly abandon something that was a major force/hope in your life for the last 12 months. it took me a few weeks to get addicted, so it might take me a few weeks to get un-addicted. in the meantime, i will hold my tongue until i can be calm about it.

and la benjelle famlilia: i am definitely glad that, if i have to lose something, it is benjelle and not la familia. sigh..