Seriously Guys, Please...

I hate to do this, because I always try to be really nice and loving to everyone, but Taylor and I have been talking, and there are a few things I'd like to say:

1) Apart from the fact that we were saving post 800 for something special that, unfortunately, hasn't happened yet... Believe it or not, we do have lives outside of running this blog, even if those lives simply involve school. I'm sorry that it sometimes takes a few days to update, especially to those who have been here since June, and remember the good ol' days of 15 posts per day... But it's been a really, really long time... To my knowledge, we're just about the only Benjelle site still up and running... Vixen foccused essentially on Benji, bu, just the same, she hasn't updated since November. I don't mean to scold you, but with all the school-based stress Taylor and I have, it would just be nice if you could put things in a little perspective. I mean, I'm certainly not here as much as I'd like to be, because I go to a crazy college-prep highschool and have virtually no free time. I founded this blog, and I can't even go on Gabbly with you guys because I'm so swamped with work.

2) I appreciate that the various yelling (Well, as much as you can over the computer) and such is not usually directed at each other, but if you could just take a few minutes to breathe before you post a heated comment with no basis for your claims, it would be much appreciated. I know I react really badly to things. My first instinct in reaction to just about anything is to go to some extreme emotion. Just please try to keep this peaceful : )

3) This blog is now about 50/50 Benjelle/La Benjelle Familia. I'm still shipping, but I know a lot of others aren't, and that's okay. As always, everyone's welcome here, and I really do love you all (Mwaaaaaaaaah!), but, if you're not even remotely shipping Benjelle anymore, not even for nostalgia's sake, why do you bother commenting here? That's REALLY not supposed to sound mean, but I'm honestly just wondering. Some people seem like they're wasting a lot of energy for no reason.

Anywho, I really don't like writing these sorta of posts, and I feel awefully mean now... *tear*

I love you all!

~ Moosey ~